The word most commonly used by carers to describe the Memory Cafe is ‘lifeline’. Living with dementia can be tough for them as well as those they care for.
Apart from the challenges of the dementia itself, many people experience isolation and loneliness. Isolation is deadly: the inability to connect regularly with the people, places and activities that give our lives meaning gradually shuts us down. Many people describe a shrinking of their social life and a sense of separation from family and friends who have sustained them all their lives.
Memory Cafes are informal social places where you can go for advice, support and friendship. The social aspect is the most important. It gives a chance to chat with friends over tea biscuits and share what is going on for you with others in a similar situation. Studies have shown that by sharing information and knowledge carers are better able to understand and support the person who is undergoing memory problems.
Memory Cafés are being set up across the UK. The Sid Valley Memory Café opened in 2010 for people in the local area. Our Cafe is led and run by volunteers, many of whom have specific experience gained either during their working years or through training since the café has started.
As it is a Sidmouth community project the café is supported by many associations in the town. Members of our local Community Health team call into the meetings and are available for confidential professional advice.
Between us our team has a wealth of experience and knowledge about memory problems and dementia and the support available.
Most importantly we all wish to offer a place where our Cafe friends can discuss their experiences with others in a similar situation, and where people living with dementia can join in a range of beneficial and enjoyable activities.
To find out more about what we offer and the events and activities we have coming up, click here.